Wednesday 23 March 2016

How to deal with break ups!

Today i'm talking about how we should deal in break up times. Well it's not easy when you get broke from the person you love. Trust me it's so hard you feel so empty ,lonely,alone,sad,broken you feel that no one is with you and your going to be alone all your life. Most of us feel this way when the person that they love break up with them for no reason. You spend days thinking of what you did wrong what happened! but you don't find anything. You look back at all the days you spent with them, you see that everything was normal what happened? It's okay at our age as us being teenagers 95% of us will have the same issue. It's not the end of the world remember that no matter what happens between you and him/her. It's difficult but you'll get through it trust me. Let me tell you a few ideas to how to deal with the situation.
1) Feeling sad the first few days is okay, cry it out watch different type of movies, eat. But after that few days get up start to change.
2) Close the old book that you had with him/her and open a new one a new beginning.
3) Change. Changing is so important change some things in you like have a diet,start to eat healthy, go to the gym,start to read book or even start to learn new recipes it helps.
4)Make a new goal in life. Its so important to have a goal make a goal of what you wanted to do so much that you couldn't done it in the past and start working on it today.
5)Don't ever forget about your friends and the nice people around you. Call them invite them over, go out with them, have some fun. It helps a lot don't stay home alone. Friends really help to change your mood and help you to get out of your situation.
6)Be yourself, be confident,strong. Remind yourself that what happens is not the end. Its a new beginning for you.
After a while you'll see that you forgot about it, and your living your life so happy and confident. Remember when one door closes the next opens. life is not that easy we will experience a lot of different things, it's okay if sometimes we get broke or we get down. We can get throw it and we can learn new things from it. Don't ever give up on yourself love yourself its the most important thing.
I hope i could helped you guys a little bit with my advises remember always smile no matter what. life is short enjoy the little things.
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