As us human every single one of us has a different view of who they really are.We all have a picture in our minds, a picture of who we think we are. A picture we choose to believe no matter what. I believe we all go through dark phases when our image of ourselves breaks and we start thinking less of ourselves. If we insist on cleaning our thoughts in our minds it will be harder to get through it. But the bright side is that you are whoever you want to be. No mater what situation we get in life, we can choose to view ourselves the way we want to. You can either get through it as a hero or slowly drift down. Whichever you choose you will become, since you believe that is who you really are. Don't let anything or anyone bring you down in life. When all the sudden something bad happens with you or someone starts to talk shit about you. Don't get down or don't even think of quitting. And the most important thing don't every think for a second of what kind of a person you are. Don't even try to change yourself for them. Be who you are be confident. You are who you are either way they like it or they don't. Because there is a lot of people in this world that they want you to break down so they feel good about themselves. Don't let them to win prove them wrong by showing what really you are.
I wanted to talk about this today because lately some people thought that i am a bad person and i'm not that kind of to talk with or to be friend with. At first i was so down that i started to think about what kind of a person i am? and i started to ask my old friends and relatives question about myself i was really thinking maybe i am a bad person but i'm not knowing that. But today when i was looking at there faces the way they were looking at me like i'm a monster and i don't deserve to be talked with, it really got into me i felt so down and it was one of the most awful feelings that i had. Knowing that they think you are someone that your not. Then when i got home i was thinking about it. I stopped for a second and told myself this is who i am if they understand me wrong its not my fault i can't do anything about it. And i reminded my self that i have to be happy, i have to be who i want to be. If others don't like it, let them be. As the saying goes, Happiness is a Choice. Life isn't about pleasing everybody!
thanks a lot to all of you who read the blog. I hope it somehow helped you. At the end i wanna say i'm so thankful of all the friends that they really know who i am and they are here with me no matter what.
xoxo
Love
Vera Varjabedian
Email:veravarjabedian99@gmail.com
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